Self Development

Acceptance Is Very Important If You Want to Live A Happy Life

There are things in life that we can’t really control. And whether you like it or not, you will always encounter many unexpected events in your life. The best way to prepare yourself is to learn the art of acceptance. If you can apply it every day, you will see yourself growing, especially in the emotional aspect.

Here are the 3 important things that you need to accept in life:

1. You can’t force somebody to love you

You need to accept that people can choose whatever they wanted to do. That’s why always put this in mind, God gave us all the freedom to choose. And you need to respect their decisions even if sometimes it hurts so bad. The best thing you can do is stay faithful to them and love them without expecting anything in return.

If you are sincerely longing for somebody’s love, then you can always pray to God. You can ask for His love instead. Because He alone can fill the emptiness, you feel inside. God’s love will always be enough. He alone can satisfy your heart. And if you will receive His love, you will never feel empty again because He will always fill you up.

2. Hurt people hurt people

Accept that we are all broken. One way or another, we all have the tendency to hurt the people around us. And that will happen, especially if we are not yet healed with all the pain, we feel inside. If you are still hurting right now, you need to be careful because you might pass that pain to others, and the worst thing that might happen is your loved ones might receive it from you.

On the other hand, you will always experience pain in this life. Nobody is perfect, and we are all fighting different battles that sometimes caused us to experience so much pain. When somebody hurts you, then always remember that they are also hurting, and just like you, they also need healing. Only the love of God can heal the pain inside. Only Him can give us the perfect love

3. Life is unpredictable

There will be a lot of things that will happen in life. Everything can change in an instant. The unexpected moments that we will experience will either break or build us up. That’s why we need to accept that there are things we can’t really control. We are not God, and He alone has the final say. Stop overthinking about the things that are out of your control. Allow God to move in your life. Surrender to Him everything, and you will always be relieved.

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