Heartbreak is temporary, but the lessons you’ll learn last Forever
Life is not just a series of joy and laughter. There will be days of sadness and pain. There will be times when we need to go through a test of life to learn and be strengthened by that experience. Although it is not easy, we will find ourselves fighting out of that pool of pain. Heartbreaks come in different forms. Some of them are caused by the events and people in our life. We experience uncontrolled situations, and they happen like a force of nature, and there’s nothing we can do but allow them to unfold on their own. It is heartbreaking to lose people and build a series of what-ifs in our minds. We will feel regrets and make it hard to move quickly. There will also be people who will betray our trust and just fade into our lives like a ghost. But of all these things that have caused our lives, let us always have that space in our hearts to learn the lessons behind our pain.
Some of our heartbreaks are caused by our expectations and standards of things. We expect too much from them. Sometimes, we must face our reality as we unconsciously ask things to satisfy our thirst. We need to know that some people don’t intentionally hurt us. We ask too much from them, which feels so exhausting. It is not because they can’t, but you need to know that you must be aware of what is going on in your heart. Maybe you ask for healing from the wrong things or people, or you want to find value through others. That is why, protecting your heart is essential. You don’t have to be numb about it. You just have to know how to accept things and understand that those heartbreaks are not there to destroy you but a chance to let God intervene to understand yourself better.
Behind the pain are lessons that will help you know yourself better. There will be lessons that will teach you how to be humble and understand yourself and others. This will be a perfect moment when God will teach you how to pass that season. It will be a fruitful moment for you. He will prune those that you no longer need so that you’ll grow. There will be times when God will take away certain things in your life. But always learn to let go and hold on to His promises.
Always remember a season of heartbreak won’t last forever. Although it will not only happen once, it will always teach you things you can treasure for the rest of your life. You are learning and growing in that experience. That moment will teach you lessons that can be key to changing your life forever. So please don’t give up right away. It will soon end. Heartbreaks are tough and heavy, but they are temporary. Make that season a chance to bring yourself and your heart closer to God. It is a perfect time to experience more of His love.
