Ladies, It’s Not About His Looks But It’s About His Outlook In Life That Matters

Maybe you are one of those single ladies who is already praying to God about their future partner. You are down on your knees, asking God to give you someone whom you can spend your whole life with. You tend to pray for a certain qualification, and you can’t deny the truth that you also include the physical attribute of the person.

There’s nothing wrong with that. But sometimes we put the physical attribute of the person as one of non-negotiable qualification. Then we tend to focus on what they look like rather than knowing who they truly are on the inside.

Ladies, this is a very important thing that you need to remember. Look on what’s on the inside because that what matters most. Before you allow a person to enter your heart, you need to consider his values and character first. Try to get to know the person’s perspective in life and ask him about his plans for the future.

Don’t just settle on what you see on the outside. Don’t judge them quickly. Get to know the person in a deeper way.  The person may look physically attractive to you but how about his heart? Is it also attractive? You may find him so cute and adorable, but how about his character? Is it adorable?

One day, you will realize that what matters most in a relationship is not how you look but it’s who you are on the inside. You deserve someone who will truly love you despite of your flaws, and you can only experience it if you will look beyond what you can see.

In a romantic relationship, it’s not good to invest love to someone who doesn’t know how to love. Make sure that your future partner knows how to love himself. Andhe also knows how to share it to the people around him, not just to you but also to his family and friends.

While you are praying for that kind of person, be the type of person also who is not only glowing on the outside but more importantly you are shining from the inside. From now on, work on your character and your values. Start working on what matters most. Go through the process and allow God to mold you.

And the most important thing to do is keep on praying. Pray for the kind of man who reflects Jesus. Pray for someone who loves God dearly. Because a person who sets his eyes on God will never fail to love you in return. You will surely feel loved and not taken for granted because he is looking to the author of love Himself which is God.