Learn to Be Patient with those People who find it Hard to Express Themselves
Not everyone knows how to communicate their emotions. Some of them find it hard to express what they truly feel inside. So if you are surrounded by this kind of people, then please be patient with them. There’s a reason why they act that way. Maybe because they grew up in a household where people tend to invalidate emotions. Or perhaps, nobody made them feel that it’s okay to express themselves. So instead of pushing them to go outside of their shell, try to be more considerate and just be that person who cheers them up, especially in moments when they can’t understand themselves. Learn to support them, and just wait until they are ready to share the things that are going on inside.
People who keep their feelings are fighting a difficult battle within. And it’s something that you can’t see. Sometimes, they are fighting against their emotions, and they find it hard to accept certain things. So instead of rushing them to express what’s going on inside, try to comfort them even if you don’t know what’s happening. They may appear strong and bold in front of other people. But behind their actions are voices that long for more understanding and patience. So try to consider their situation and choose to love them with the best that you can.
The best way to help them is to make them feel that they are not alone. Just be present in their lives because sometimes, your existence is already a big thing for them. They may not be able to express how thankful they are for your life, but the truth is, your presence is more than enough. Stay close to them and just walk with them along the journey. Let them know that they can always count on you. Keep serving them without asking anything in return. With a genuine heart, choose to embrace who they are, even in moments when you find it difficult to understand them.
Just wait for them to feel better. They will speak when they are ready. The moment they realize that they are not alone, they will eventually learn to break down the walls and allow you to come in. But until that day comes, let the love of God teach you how to deal with them. Remember that He never pushed you to love Him back. Instead, He keeps on doing good things until you realize that you are deeply loved and treasured. And that love alone broke the chains that hinder you from knowing Him more. So keep that love because it will serve as your driving force to also understand and accept others.
