Loving Someone Takes A Lot Of Risks
It is a risk because you will never know the things that will happen next. You can never control the things that are going on in your partner’s heart, and you can never dictate to them the decisions that they need to choose. That’s why if you are still single right now and are praying for the right person in your life. Then you need to consider this very important reminder. Love is a risk. We may not know what lies ahead, but we can always prepare our hearts for it.
We need to consider the fact that humans are not perfect. We all experience pain, and one way or another, we tend to pass that pain to the people we love. That’s why it’s crucial to deal first with the personal battles you experience inside before allowing somebody else to enter your heart. You need to heal your heart first so that you can share love instead of pain. And the same goes for your future partner. There’s a big possibility that they might pass to you the pain they feel inside. So we really need to take good care of our hearts first.
Life is unpredictable. And sometimes, you will get to know the person wholeheartedly the moment you go through a lot of hardships. It’s when you discover your partner’s real character, and you will get to choose whether to stay or not. Some want to stay despite the difficulties, but others don’t have enough courage to face all the challenges. That’s why it’s very important for you to properly handle your emotions because when you let your emotions consume you, you will have a hard time recovering.
You need to be ready to receive pain. Because most of the time, you will only realize that you truly love the person the moment you experience pain from them, yet you still choose to stay no matter what happens. It’s choosing the person again and again. So before you think of allowing others to come in, you need to be ready for the possible risk that you will be taking. This is not a smooth ride. There will be a lot of challenges that will strengthen your relationship. Just always pray for God’s love to consume you so that you will be guided. Loving someone with all your heart is never an easy thing to do, but it’s worth fighting for. I hope that you get to fight that kind of love with the right person.
