Please Remember The People Who Love You Before You Make Big Decisions In Life

You are a part of a community, and above all, you are part of a family. Please be responsible enough to consider the outcome of your decisions, not just for yourself but also for your family and the people who love you. Before you make up your mind about anything, think of the consequences because your decisions will also affect the people around you. Remember that no man is an island. You need people to rely on, and at the same time, your loved ones also wanted to rely on you.

We are all connected. Whether you like it or not, your simple actions will affect not only yourself but also the people who sincerely love you. So please stop putting yourself at the center. Sometimes, we tend to solely focus on our own desires that we forget to consider other people. We forget that they also have feelings, and they also care for us. I hope you will always choose to love them as well.

I’m not telling you that you should always please them. But it’s not about doing things for them to be satisfied with your actions. It’s acknowledging that they will be affected every time you will be troubled and in pain. The people who genuinely love you will not only sit there and let you suffer. They will be the ones who will carry you and help you until you can stand up again. There are moments when we commit mistakes not because we can’t control them, but simply because we made the wrong decision. And those mistakes will have consequences, and you will not carry it all alone. Your loved ones will be there to help you. They will also fight the battle with you because that’s what family is all about. They may not own you, but your family loves you so much.

So please, before you plan for anything to happen in your life, try to consider the consequences that you and your loved ones will encounter. May you always choose to value them because they are rare jewels. God purposely surrounded you with those people so that you will not face this life alone, so serve and love them the best way you can. And you can never do it unless you never believe with all your heart that you are very important in their eyes.