Romans 12:17, NIV
Choose to love your enemy. This may not be easy, especially when you experience too much pain and heartache because of their words and actions, but you need to remember the instructions written in the scripture. Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Vengeance is not yours. Surrender it to God. Allow Him to move. Your role is to love and remain kind to them. Do not focus on the pain or the negative things that happened. Instead, remember the blessings that God poured out in your life. Focus on what God is doing behind the scenes. Have faith that He will change your situation in ways you can never imagine.
May you choose to love and pray for your enemy.