Self Development

Some things in Life will not end Happily

We can’t predict what will happen in the future. And there will be days that we badly want to escape because they are sad endings that break our hearts. But despite the pain, we need to accept the truth that everything around us will change and what we can do is to move forward. You need to keep walking because God is always there to guide and lead you. The pain that you experience will not stay with you forever. Things will be better, and when the time is right, God will teach you how to surrender the things you can’t control.

In Him, you will have the courage to say goodbye to things or people who used to have very important roles in your life. You will realize that God alone is the only One who’s consistent and will never change. In Him, your ending is always full of love, joy, and peace. So take heart and know that you will soon recover. You will learn to laugh and forget the pain you used to carry because God will heal your wounds. And He will give your heart the strength to carry on.

Going through pain is part of life. You can’t avoid it. No matter how much you try to do things carefully, you will still meet people or circumstances that will test your character as a person. That’s why you need to prepare your heart and mind. The best way to start is to accept that things don’t go according to your plans. Sometimes, people will disappoint you, and there be moments when you need to unexpectedly say goodbye to them and to the life that you used to have.

It’s going to be so heartbreaking, but in times when you can’t understand what’s happening. Just stay in the presence of God and let Him help you. Open your heart for His love, and He will let you feel whole and complete. You will find joy in His presence, the kind of joy that you can’t contain. And no matter where life will take you, still, you can overcome everything because your foundation is not rooted in a certain place, season, or person, but you are firmly planted in the presence of God. You will feel contented as long as you are with Him, and goodbyes will no longer be that painful to you.

Remember that you are on a journey. That means you can’t carry everything with you. There are so many things that you need to surrender along the way. Since you are just a passerby, you can’t stay in the same place with the same people. Others will also walk on a journey, and whether you like it or not, there will be times when you need to go through different paths. And it will not always end the way you want them to be.

Sometimes, things will be so unexpected and painful. But you need to keep going. You can acknowledge what you feel, but you should not stay there. Know that God allows you to experience that kind of thing for a purpose. One day, when you arrive at the place that God prepared, you will realize the blessings behind those painful goodbyes. Trust that God knows what’s best for you. He has already planned your future, and all you need to do is keep going. The only thing that you should carry with you is His great love. Continue to hold His hands, and He will never leave your side. Imagine that He is your companion. The things and people around you may change and disappear but know that God is always there to walk with you. You are not alone. Let Him give you the strength that you need so that you can let go of things or people that are not meant for you.

Just choose to treasure the memories you had. Be thankful to God because He gives you the chance to discover more of His power through the goodbyes that you experienced. Yes, not all of them are easy to let go, but He gave you the strength that you need so that you can move forward. Just carry the happy memories with you. Let everything that happened to you in the past change you from the inside out.

Remember the lessons that you learned and praise God for giving you the opportunity to know and experience more of His love. Turn your experiences into a testimony that will bring hope to those who are going through the same struggles that you victoriously overcome. Treat those painful goodbyes as God’s way of leading you to the right people and opportunities. One day, you will be able to look back with so much gladness because you see the hands of God moving in the midst.