Stop Forcing Someone that God Meant for you to Let Go
There are some parts of letting go that are hard to accept. Sometimes, it’s heartbreaking and painful, and you can’t help but force the person to stay with you. But then, what if it’s God’s will for you to let the person go? What if He wanted you to experience greater things in life? Will you still do it? It’s really difficult to comprehend the plans of God. But He knows what’s ahead, and He sees things that you can’t appreciate. That’s why the best thing to do is just to trust Him. You may not understand everything for now, but one day, God will slowly reveal to you the reason why you need to go through that painful season. Just endure and allow Him to comfort you.
It will hurt at first, but God would rather allow you to go through that season than let you suffer in the end. He knows what’s best for you. Yes, you find it hard to comprehend His ways, but trust the heart of God. He loves you. Remember that He is your Father, and He wanted to protect you from the wrong person. He sees the bigger picture, and He will never let you go through the kind of pain that you can’t handle. Don’t focus on the negative things that happened. Look forward to the promises of God. Believe that He will fulfill everything that He said according to His perfect timing.
Let go and allow God to move. Acknowledge His power in your life, and choose to abide in His instructions. You may not understand everything, but it’s better to follow God than walk along the path that leads to destruction. You will never be dismayed in His presence. He will always give the blessings that He desires for you to receive. Just learn to surrender and let God take charge of the things that you can’t control. Let Him handle them for you. Don’t worry because He will give you the strength that you need.
The pain will change you into a better person as long as you allow God to heal your heart. You will appreciate everything that He is doing behind the scene as soon as you arrive at the place where God wants you to be with the right person beside you. God hears your prayers, and He knows the things that your heart is crying out. So do not be afraid to surrender the person who is not meant for you. He will send someone that will honor and respect you. Just wait and be patient. Know that you will never be alone along the healing process. God’s love will be with you wherever you go.
3 Comments
Shanique
Amen..so true
Downey
Excellent word; thank you for this
Kimber
I like this article but my husband died 2 years ago. Does that mean he wasn’t the right one for me? Why did Gipod take him?