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Listen Not To Answer But To Understand Other People
To answer before listening— that is folly and shame. Proverbs 18:13, NIV Sometimes, it’s easier to speak than to listen. When we are at the peak of our emotions, we can’t help but find a way to express and release them through our words. But this verse in Proverbs simply reminds us to pause and choose to listen even if it’s hard. Sometimes, it takes dying on the inside. You need to hold back the things that deeply disturb you in order for the other person to feel heard and respected. This is not an easy thing to do. Imagine, you need to constantly remind yourself not to speak back…
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Acts 2:4, NIV
All of them were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other tongues as the Spirit enabled them. Acts 2:4, NIV As Jesus promised His disciples, He sent the Holy Spirit to help them. After He ascended to heaven, the disciples gathered in one place, and there, Jesus proved to them that His words were true. Suddenly a sound like the blowing of a violent wind came from heaven and filled them. They saw supernatural things, and that’s when they realized what it feels like to truly receive the great Helper. You see, Jesus will fulfill His promises. He is true to His words. And His instructions…
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Day 383 – Proverbs 18:13
To answer before listening – that is folly and shame. Proverbs 18: 13, NIV Try to control your mouth first. Listen before you speak. Learn about the situation. Know the story behind a person’s behavior. Ask about the details, and don’t allow your emotions to control your actions. Yes, you want to express yourself and release what you truly feel inside, but remember that you can never find peace just by releasing painful words to others. Think before you answer. Allow God to give you the wisdom that you need. Listen not for the purpose of revenge, but do it so that you may find peace. Pray that God will…
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Effective Communication starts when you Listen to Understand and not to Respond
Listening is a powerful action that can rebuild someone’s life. If you only knew what it feels like to have somebody who is always willing to listen to your stories, then you will realize that it’s one of the most wonderful gifts you could ever receive. It’s the best way for you to effectively communicate with others. So if you wanted to make your relationships grow, then listen to understand the person and not respond to them. Sometimes, when you are too full of your emotions, you tend to interrupt others and reply directly even if they haven’t finished sharing their stories. You immediately put some conclusions in your mind…
