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You Will Stop Seeking Validation From The Outside If You Know Who You Are On The Inside
Those who don’t know who they truly are will seek validation from the people around them. They will find themselves looking for the approval of others, and they will ultimately feel exhausted simply because they can’t please everyone. This is why it’s very important to work on your core so that you won’t be easily shaken. If you don’t have a strong foundation, other people will easily dictate your identity, or perhaps the situation around you will become your driving force. Instead of standing on solid ground and living in your core values, you will find yourself following the principles of this world. This will then lead you to a…
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A Heart that cries for Validation seeks to Please other People
People who are longing for love will sometimes be tempted to look for it in the wrong person. And because they badly wanted to receive affirmation, they chose to please others just for them to feel validated. But the sad truth is, people can make you feel loved and accepted but not every moment. We are all imperfect, and each of us is carrying thorns that will somehow hurt somebody else. You can never please everyone. You will end up broken and frustrated if you just keep focusing on what other people want you to do. Focus on God, and choose to do the things that please His name. In…
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To the Person who’s making Progress that no one Recognizes
Keep going, and do not stop. People may not appreciate your little victories, but know that God sees everything that you are doing, and He admires you for your effort and for staying in His presence. Take courage! Because the one who knows you from the inside out recognizes your heart. And He will reward you in His perfect timing. Do not rely on what the people around you are doing. Sometimes, we long for their affirmation, and we feel disappointed every time we don’t receive the words that we wanted to hear from the people we love. But what’s important is that God appreciates all the things that you…
