The Bitterness in your Heart will lead you to make Wrong Decisions
Your negative emotions can only help you if you know how to properly manage and process them. They can reveal hidden wounds in your heart that you need to face. But if you let them control you, you will surely make decisions that you will regret in the end. So before it’s too late, come to God and let Him purify your heart, especially the bitterness you feel towards other people. Let His grace remind you to forgive others. You may think that it’s not an easy thing to do, but if you will only focus on the love of God. You will surely have the courage to accept other people’s mistakes.
Stop carrying the pain in your heart. Stop recalling the past that you experienced. Let go and surrender it all to God. You are surrounded by so many blessings in life, and you will fail to appreciate them if you keep focusing on those people who broke your heart. If you keep on entertaining the bitterness inside, you will find it hard to select from the right choices because your perspective is only limited according to the pain that you feel.
If you still feel bitter because of what others did, and you can’t help it, then learn the habit of asking pieces of advice from the right people. Do not make decisions on your own, especially the kind of decisions that you can’t easily change. You will find it hard to think of the consequences if you always focus on the pain. Seek God’s wisdom and ask help from those who have already gone through the same struggles that you have. Remember that you are not alone. Call upon God, and He will speak to you.
Sometimes, He will send someone who will guide and minister to you. Just don’t rely on your feelings because they are not reliable. Listen to God instead, for He will teach you what to do. You need someone who will remind you about His goodness and love. Pray that you will be surrounded by people who will help you grow in His presence. If you happen to have that kind of spiritual community, then stay with them and ask for help. They will make you realize what following God is all about.
Choose to embrace His love and let Him teach you how to forgive. Accept the truth that you are living in a broken world. The people around you are also struggling, and they are not perfect. So you need to forgive them. You can only do that if you are filled with God’s love. So open your heart and let Him come in. He will heal your wounds and change the way you see things. In Him, you will realize the beauty behind the pain.
He will lead you to the right decision. So fix your eyes on His goodness, and never allow the bitterness to consume you. Release forgiveness and do it not just for the sake of others but it’s for yourself. Let go of the negative things that you feel for they will just lead you to a life full of misery. Follow God and look at what Jesus did on the cross. Let His precious blood lead you to repentance.
Always remember that a heart that is full of bitterness can’t properly weigh things. They always carry negative feelings inside. When they are confronted by challenges and problems, that person can’t think properly because his heart is not okay. This is the reason why you need to purify everything that’s going on inside and allow the precious blood of Jesus to cleanse them. Surrender your own thoughts to God, and He will align your heart to His will. You won’t appreciate the resources around you if you always entertain the voices of the enemy. Know that your wounds can still be healed. God can make you whole again. Just come to His presence, and He will restore you. In Him, you will receive the wisdom that you need.
