The Gift Of Being Vulnerable To The Right People

We all want to feel connected to other people. We are highly relational and social beings. We have a deep desire to be with people who will make us feel safe. It takes a vulnerable heart to do this. That’s why, the moment we learn to express what’s in our hearts to the right people, that’s when we feel so connected to them.

Being vulnerable is not that bad. We may have negative experiences in the past that led us to build walls that protected ourselves, but our lives won’t be that fulfilling if we don’t learn to connect to others. We just need to find the right people who will listen and be there for us. Those people may be hard to find, but the moment you meet them, you will realize how valuable they are.

The right people will choose to listen and not judge you. They are not perfect, but even though there are times when they commit mistakes, you will see them growing. They are humble enough to accept the consequences of their choices and are responsible for their actions. You will find those people trying to become a better version of themselves. If you already have someone in mind, feel free to become vulnerable to them.

There are burdens in life that are meant to be shared. You may have some issues because you already tried your best before, and someone broke your trust, but that doesn’t mean God won’t lead you to people who help you along the journey. Pray that He will give you the courage to trust again. And only then will you find yourself sharing the deepest wounds in your heart with the people that God will send.