Self Development

The People Who Deeply Love You Will Also Carry The Consequences Of Your Choices

You may think that you just live life on your own. But remember that God gave special gifts called family and friends. They are the people who deeply love you and will choose to stay with you no matter what happens. You are connected to God and to the people He gave you to love and cherish. And those people will also carry the consequences of your choices. Simply because they can’t leave you alone. Their love for you is just too big that they can’t bear to see you suffer, so they would rather face the outcome of your choices, may it be good or bad, just for them to show you that you are treasured and loved. They will exert effort and do their best to stay even if they go through hardships.

This is the reason why you need to think carefully before you make big decisions in life. Try to see the possible consequences that you will face. Look at the bigger picture and try to see things differently. Because sometimes, what we see is just a part of the whole story. And when you just focus on the small pieces of your situation, you will miss the most valuable things you need to consider. Accept the fact that you are part of someone’s life. And whether you like it or not, they will also feel your pain because that’s what love is all about.

Don’t just think for yourself. Never allow your emotions to make decisions for you. You can control your feelings. You just have to learn how to slow down and give yourself the chance to think. Try to process everything before you make decisions in life. Think of those people who love you. And make decisions not just for yourself but also for them. Ask God and rely on His wisdom. Allow Him to guide you, and He will lead you to the right path.

This is not to condemn you for the mistakes that you made. Your failures in life will teach you something important. But this is just one of the harsh truths that you need to face. You are not alone. One way or another, people who deeply care for you will be affected. They may not say it to you, but they also get tired and sometimes wanted to rest. But then, they choose to do the right thing, and that’s to stay by your side. I hope that you will also learn to appreciate them. I know what you’ve been going through is not easy, and you are also trying your best to make things right. But just continue to show your love to those people who chose to stay with you through good times and bad.

4 Comments

  • Ha Phuong Thuy

    So true! God always deep understands us. Everytime I read these, I feel ease deep inside. Thank you for wonderful writings.

    • CJean Bernabe

      Am so touched with this writing. Though I am trying so much to suppress my feelings to love, the more intense I longed for him..I knew it wasn’t right but is it wrong to love again though its complicated..knowingly also that there’s no sacrifices can be sacrifice to both sides but instead have been treating each other fairly to help each other..help!