Self Development

There are things that you will Understand better if you Choose to Ask for Help

We don’t always have all the answers that we need in life. But there are people who are already traveling the journey ahead of us, and though God prepared a unique path for everyone, still we can learn something valuable from those who already experienced what we are struggling with right now. There are things that you will only discover the moment you learn to ask for some help. So do not live this life on your own. Instead, acknowledge the people that God allowed you to meet and try to listen to their experiences. Know their testimonies, and only then will you learn about the amazing ways of God. You will realize so many things if you go outside of your comfort zone and talk to other people.

You can ask questions to the people around you. Do not simply rely on your own understanding. Sometimes, it’s good to ask for some help. Know that God purposely allowed you to meet other people so that you will learn from them. And you will never treasure their stories if you will not ask. So create relationships with the people around you and discover the things that God did in their lives. Only then will you realize how wonderful and awesome God’s love is. You will discover more of Him through the testimonies that they will share with you. 

Open your heart and mind for new things. You will only learn more if you have a teachable heart that is humble enough to accept the truth that you need other people’s help. No man is an island. God created you to be part of a family and a community. You are not destined to live this life on your own. You are meant to experience good relationships with other people. Just don’t keep everything inside. Instead, choose to seek support and assistance. When you learn to ask for help, you will also learn to serve others along the way. At first, it’s very uncomfortable to do it, but soon, you will get used to it.

Choose to listen to other people. Know that their presence in your life is not an accident. God destined you to be with people who will help you grow. You just have to pray that He will give you ears that are willing to listen. Be grateful because He gave you the chance to meet those who will help you along the journey. Some of them will not stay with you for a long time, so treasure them while you still can.