To All The Singles Out There, Pray For Your Own Growth While You Wait

Sometimes we are so occupied with our own standards that we forget our personal growth if you happen to be one of those single people who is eagerly waiting for the right one to come, you need to start praying for yourself. Pray that God will bless you with enough wisdom to decide what is wrong and right. Above all, focus on your growth because that’s what matters most.

Work on the things that you can still improve on yourself. There are many things that we need to learn in life, and maybe God intentionally allowed you to experience this season because it’s the perfect time for you to learn about it. Be patient, and enjoy whatever it is that God provided for you. Be grateful for the things that you have and enjoy your time with God. Learn to treasure everything that you are doing right now because we never really know what will happen next.

Take this time to know yourself even more. Discover the things that you really want in life and learn new skills. Develop the talent that God gave you and make the most of it. Since you still have a lot of time and lesser responsibilities, use it to serve God. Do not just stay there doing nothing while waiting. Make the most of your time improving yourself, especially your relationship with God. The more you develop yourself, the more you realize that there are still many things that you can do in life aside from waiting for the right one to come.

You can’t introduce yourself to your future spouse if you never really know who you truly are. So take this time to deal with your personal issues inside. Settle the things that you need to fix so that when you enter into a relationship, you will no longer have a hard time dealing with your personal problems. Love yourself, and only then will you know how to love others. This is a beautiful season for you to flourish in the presence of God. It will never be boring as long as you also have the will to do what God wants you to do.

Your character is very important in your future relationship. You need to have a stronger foundation so that you will not be easily broken. Allow God to heal your heart first and let His love reign in your heart because only then will you be able to also share that kind of love to your future spouse.