When You Find It Hard To Ask For Help

Are you going through something difficult right now, and you find it hard to ask for help? It’s clear that you need someone who will listen to you, but you just don’t have the courage to do it. Perhaps you tried reaching out before, but no one really stayed with you, and that pain created fear in your heart.

From then on, you kept everything on your own, thinking that life is much better if you hide the deepest wounds in your heart.

But then, they are just days when you want to express everything. They are just instances when you really want to pour out the heavy burdens in your heart.

However, it seems like the people around you are also trying to survive. And they, too, are going through battles inside. That’s why you just remained silent and tried to keep going even when it hurt.

My friend, you may find it hard to ask for help, but one day, you will have the courage to open up your heart again. Soon, you will learn to trust. Just be patient with yourself.

Take this time to connect to your loving Father. He will heal your wounds. He will teach you how to love yourself and to reach out to others. He will give you a new heart. God will hold your hands in this season.

You are not alone. The burden that you are carrying may temporarily cripple you but continue to surrender them to God. Just keep praying because God will send help.

Do not lose hope because God is listening. He is guiding and leading you right now. You may not see His ways, but He is working. Believe that God’s hands are moving behind the scenes.

Don’t be too hard on yourself. When you are ready, you will have the courage to ask for help. And when that time comes, it means that you are no longer scared of the pain that you experienced in the past. It means that you are healed.