We can never really control the things that are happening around us. It’s something that we need to accept. At the same time, we can’t also control other people’s behavior because we all have the freedom to make our own decisions, and sometimes that freedom will lead us to suffer pain and brokenness. But then, we don’t have to blame the person who caused us pain. There is an important lesson behind the things that we are going through, and we just have to learn those lessons and move on. I know that it’s a very hard thing to do. We tend to look at the person’s mistake rather than…