Self Development
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You will never figure out the Lesson if you keep on Complaining to God
You can either make the most of your situation, or you can focus on the negative things that are going on around you. You can dwell on your failures, or you can apply the lessons. You always have a choice. Remember that you can’t control your situation, but you always have the freedom to choose your reactions. Do not allow your circumstances to dictate your behavior. Do not focus on what’s lacking. Instead, look at the blessings around you. Try to dig the treasures behind all the problems that God allowed you to face. There are so many things that you can learn, and you can maximize all your resources…
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Overthinking will make you do Things that you Don’t Intentionally Want To
Every word and action that you do has reasons behind it. Sometimes you do good things because it is what you have in your heart, or it feels good to do it. There are instances where you try to protect yourself from those who can destroy your peace. On the other hand, you could also do things that result in feeling guilty and regretful. Something you don’t intentionally plan in the first place could happen instantly. You might end up hating and blaming yourself for it. But please remember that your actions and words reflect what you have within. It is not to put you in a bad situation but…
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You can still make Changes in your Life
There is still hope. You may think that you are walking in the darkness, but you can still see the light ahead. You can make changes if you want. God gave you the freedom to make your own decisions. Use the resources that He gave and do something about your situation. You are surrounded by so many choices. Sometimes, you haven’t considered those difficult answers because you are scared of the outcome. But know that God is there to guide you. The next steps may appear so painful, but that is part of the process. Just be patient and know that He will be there to give you the strength…
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You can Learn from the People you have Met
Other people could be the reason why you are motivated to go on and fight in life. They could be your source of inspiration and strength to remind you to get up whenever life throws problems on you. On the same strand, people could also be the reason to hurt you. Their words can make or break you. You start to distance yourself from them and try to avoid meeting more people in your life. Sometimes, pain can cause you too much to lose the trust that you once quickly built. As you go on in life, you start to be conscious of who you would let into your life.…
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Let your Dreams be Greater than your Problems
You can never control the situation that you will experience. Sometimes, you will meet circumstances that will test your desires. It will shake your character and the way you perceive life. That’s why you need to have a strong foundation that will help you fight against the negative voices in your head. Let your dreams be bigger than your problems and fears so that when you encounter painful moments, you can immediately remember the things that you deeply desire. It will fuel your motivation and help you stay on track. When you are surrounded by so many distractions, your dreams will remind you to keep going. When you can’t stop…
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Your Heart may be Fragile, but it’s a Treasure that you shouldn’t take for Granted
You may not always understand what’s going on inside, but remember that your emotions are valid. You are allowed to feel in pain. No matter how irrational you think the reasons are, choose to listen to your heart because you deserve to be heard. It may be fragile, but in the eyes of God, it’s like a treasure that you shouldn’t take for granted. Sometimes, your feelings are too deep that you can’t even find the perfect words to describe them. You may find yourself crying in the darkness, but know that God is holding your heart. When you are ready, He will do something so that you will experience…
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This is How you will Discover your Worth
In this modern age, you will encounter different information that will dictate your worth. Strangers will label you as useless. And there will be days when you hear negative comments from people you love. That’s why it’s very important to discover your true worth. So that when you face obstacles, you will not be easily swayed by the lies of the enemy. You need to have a strong foundation, especially when you encounter uncertainties and pain. For you to know your real value in the eyes of God, here are three things that you can do: 1. Open the Bible and read God’s words. Your Creator alone knows who you…
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You can’t always Hear the Answers that you Want
There are days when you just can’t understand what’s going on in your life. Sometimes, you will ask deep questions and fail to hear the answers that you want. And that’s okay. You are not alone. You are also surrounded by people who are still asking for explanations about certain situations in their lives. As long as you are living in this broken world, you will still go through uncertainties and unexpected events. There are times when you can’t find the strength to keep moving. There will be moments when you find it hard to even get up and start your day with excitement. But despite those difficult seasons, choose…
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Sometimes, God will even use People we don’t like to Teach us
God will use anybody to connect with you. He will use your family to teach you what love is. He will also guide you through your friends, acquaintances, and even strangers with whom you can share short dialogues with. He will use anybody just to connect with you, even people you don’t like. These could be those people who have wronged and hurt you. Even those people that you constantly avoid, God can use them to teach you something. You may dislike somebody because of their traits and attitude. And that is okay. But there will be those moments when God will allow you to meet people you cannot agree…
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Acceptance is Giving Yourself a Chance to Move on in Life
A lot of things in this life are beyond your control. It is hard to accept things, especially when they bring you too much pain that cannot be healed immediately. Painful and hurtful things make you weak and numb. You cannot let go of it because it has its roots in you. There will be times when you would unconsciously cling to it because of the memory it gave you. You might feel guilty over something you regret not doing or feel sorry for the unsaid words that should have freed somebody. But what you have right now is your power of acceptance. Remember, what was done cannot be undone.…
