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Don’t give Anyone the Responsibility to make you Happy
It’s not anybody’s job to make you happy. It’s your responsibility. So stop expecting other people to take away the loneliness in your heart. You are powerful enough to take charge of your own emotions. Happiness is a choice that you need to make every single day. It depends on how you see things and the situations around you. It’s not about what people did to you, but it’s how you see their actions that make you feel glad. You will be disappointed if you let somebody dictate your joy because nobody can do it but you. It’s like you are hiring a person with a job that is impossible…
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Learn to Be Patient with those People who find it Hard to Express Themselves
Not everyone knows how to communicate their emotions. Some of them find it hard to express what they truly feel inside. So if you are surrounded by this kind of people, then please be patient with them. There’s a reason why they act that way. Maybe because they grew up in a household where people tend to invalidate emotions. Or perhaps, nobody made them feel that it’s okay to express themselves. So instead of pushing them to go outside of their shell, try to be more considerate and just be that person who cheers them up, especially in moments when they can’t understand themselves. Learn to support them, and just…
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Sometimes, what Destroys you are the things Happening on the inside
Maybe you feel so devastated because of the uncertainties around you, but sometimes, what’s going on inside is more important than what surrounds you. The way you look at yourself and how you deal with your wounds matters more than the problems you face. So focus on managing yourself, and you will learn to handle the different challenges you will encounter. Your heart’s status and the perspective you have will eventually destroy you if you do not align them to God. You can never control the situation around you. But the good thing is, you have the power to manage the things that are going on deep inside your heart.…
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Focus on God’s Favor, not on your Failures
The hands of God are moving in your midst. Maybe you can’t see it because your mind is too occupied with the bad things that happened in your life. You focus on your failures rather than looking at the opportunities that God provided for you. There are lessons behind your mistakes and disappointments in life. You just have to look at the things that matter most at the end of the day. You will be trapped inside your emotions if you keep thinking about the negative things. Look at the power of God and remind yourself over and over again about the great miracles that He did in your life.…
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Day 287 – Ephesians 4:26-27
“In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. Ephesians 4:26-27,NIV If you are angry with someone, choose to release your emotions in a place where you can be alone and burst out everything. Avoid talking to other people because you might release hurtful words to them. Learn to process your emotions by talking to God and surrendering everything to Him. Do not act or decide when you are not feeling okay because you might regret it in the end. Do not give the devil a foothold. Never allow him to use your…
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You Only Have One Life, So Take Good Care Of Yourself
You are God’s unique creation, and there’s no one else like you. The life that you have will never last, and you only have one chance to live in it. You can never have it back, so when God decides to take you home, then there’s nothing else that you can do. While you are still breathing, learn to cherish the blessings that God provided for you. Take good care of yourself. Learn to treasure your body and acknowledge your emotions. Seek for peace and find rest in the arms of God. Stop focusing on the negative things. Always remember that your time here on earth is too short. So…
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It’s Okay
Yes, you criedYou feel the painYou are disappointedAnd lonely inside But it’s okayYou are humanYou have your emotionsAnd life is not perfect Acknowledge what’s insideAnd never deny itAccept what’s happeningAnd honor your feelings God understands youHe knows everythingHe will send comfortHe will wipe away your tears It’s okay to cry in His presencePour out everythingAnd share to HimAll your burdens
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Not All Pain Is Caused By Other People, Most Of Them Are Self-Inflicted
When we think of pain, we try to recall those people who broke our hearts. Like how we replay our favorite movies, we unconsciously do the same thing in our minds. We keep on recalling that horrible past we experienced, and that’s when we feel the hurt again. Please remind yourself that not all pain is caused by other people. There are moments when we keep on putting ourselves back to the place where we feel so hopeless. We blame ourselves for what happened, and we unknowingly hate the way we react to those things. That’s when it becomes self-inflicted. What happened was in the past, but you keep on…
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God’s Love Will Give You The Courage To Face The Pain
The first step towards healing is facing the deepest pain you have inside. It may not be an easy thing to do, but God’s love is powerful enough to help you. He will give you the courage that you need to face the wounds in your heart. At first, it feels so painful, but that kind of pain will lead you to great healing. Just learn to trust in Him because He knows what He is doing. It takes so much strength to overcome the reasons behind your fears. That’s why you need assurance that everything will be okay in the end. And the love of God will make you…
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Day 200 – John 11:35
Jesus wept. John 11:35, NIV Jesus can relate to the things you feel inside. He understands you. So do not be afraid to come to Him because He deeply knows everything that’s going on in your heart. He will comfort you. He knows the story behind all your tears. Let Him embrace you with His great love, and you will be healed. God can handle the negative emotions you feel inside. So do not hesitate to share all your thoughts with Him. He will be listening to you. Treat Him as your best friend. Please never invalidate your emotions. Instead of ignoring it, learn to surrender what you feel in…
