Self Development
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You Still Have The Chance To Change Your Present
Today is a blessing from God. He gave it to you because you still have a purpose here on earth. And you can only fulfill God’s desires in your life if you will learn to live according to His ways. So if there is something that you need to change, then today is your chance to do it. Take every breath as an opportunity for you to change the things that don’t please the Lord. And only then will you learn to treasure every moment you have here on earth. Do not give up yet. As long as God is giving you another day to live, then it simply means…
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You Are Allowed To Cry And Feel Sad
If you feel so lonely and sad, then please do not hide it inside. You are human, and it’s part of life. Acknowledge what you truly feel, and do not ignore it. You may find it hard to carry all the pain, but always remember that you are not alone in this journey. God is with you, and He will never leave you behind. When you learn to accept the truth that your emotions are part of who you are as a person, you will stop being too hard on yourself. You will realize that the best thing that you can do is not to blame or condemn yourself but…
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An Open Letter To Someone Who Is Afraid To Leave The Past Behind
You are such a brave person. Please always keep that in mind. You may experience many painful things in life, and you may feel so scared deep inside. But you need to leave the past behind and set yourself free from all the things that keep you from taking the next step. Yes, it’s not an easy thing to do, but there’s no other way out but to move forward. You can never turn back time and change the things that happened before. But you can always take the next step and change your perspective. You can still do something in the present. That’s why focus on the things that…
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One Day, You Will Learn To Value The Season That You Are In
You may not understand the purpose of why you go through such a difficult season in your life. You may have a lot of questions in mind. You may fail to appreciate the things that are going on because all you see are the challenges in front of you. But one day, you will learn to enjoy the season that you are in. You will end up thanking God for allowing you to experience that kind of situation. You will see yourself growing, and you will learn many things. So hold on and trust God along the process. Life may give you unexpected moments, but God can make everything beautiful…
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Honest Answers May Hurt You, But It Will Make You Grow
There are certain things in life that we need to accept. The truth may hurt us sometimes, but we will never discover the fullness of this life if we can’t accept it. So be grateful to those people who choose to give you honest answers even if they know that it will hurt. Because only then will you learn to grow and work on your blind spots. Do not be afraid if someone gives you honest feedback. Instead of taking it as something against you, just try to treat it as an opportunity for you to become a better person. Learn to receive feedback positively, and you will discover a…
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Rejections Will Lead You To Discover Great Things About Yourself
Do you want to discover more about yourself? Then try your best not to avoid rejections. Because only then will you know how strong and resilient you are, especially in moments when you face unwanted events in life. You will be able to evaluate and assess yourself. You will know if you are really growing or not. It’s a very wonderful opportunity for you to discover your potential as a person. Keep on trying, because the best things in life don’t only happen in an instant. It requires effort, dedication, and commitment. There will always be hindrances along the way. But the more you receive setbacks in life, the more…
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Personal Growth Doesn’t Have To Be A Lonely Journey
You don’t have to travel this life alone. God allowed you to meet a lot of people so that you will learn to journey this life with them. If you aim to develop yourself, especially your character and perspective in life, then you don’t have to do it independently. Yes, it’s something personal. But you can always ask the help of other people. You need to open your heart and mind and allow them to teach and guide you. No man is an island. You need people who are honest enough to correct and lead you to the right path. God has a reason why you meet certain people in…
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Living This Life Despite Of The Pain Is Never An Easy Thing
I always admire those who keep on walking through the path of life, even if they feel broken inside. The courage that they have is so contagious that when you discover the things that they’ve been going through, you will realize that the source of their strength is extraordinary. Their eagerness to continue to take the next step will also inspire you to keep on moving. What they are doing is not an easy thing. Every day feels like a battle, but they never give up simply because they hold on to the slightest hope they have. If you are one of those people who are struggling but then you…
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You Don’t Have To Find All The Answers Because You Will Figure Things Out Along The Journey
If you think that you need to answer every question you have in mind before taking the next step, then you need to consider this simple reminder. Sometimes, God will not give us the answers simply because He wants us to trust in Him more than our own understanding. So stop looking for some explanations and let God guide you. Take a small step, and you will figure things out along the way. You just have to increase your faith. Trust God, even if you don’t have any clue about the things that are going on in your life. Believe with all your heart that He will guide you. He…
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Being Too Busy Is Not An Excuse For You To Run Away From Your Pain
It’s not easy to face the pain inside. Sometimes, you would rather choose to forget your emotions and move on in life. You keep yourself busy at work, and you try to fill your mind with thoughts that will make you forget about your emotions. You treat your busy schedule as an excuse to run away from what you truly feel. But at the end of the day, if you will not learn to face it, you will end up feeling so broken on the inside. That’s why you need to remember that God doesn’t give you emotions just for you to ignore and run away from it. It’s there…
