Self Development
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The Pain You Feel Inside Will Teach You How To Connect With Others
Maybe you are asking so many questions to God right now. Why do you have to go through that kind of pain? Why do you have to face a lot of challenges? You may be wondering about so many things in your life. But trust that God has a purpose for everything that you’ve been going through. What if the pain that you feel inside will lead you to understand and love other people? So just be patient along the journey and trust that God has greater plans for you. The things that you’ve been through will never be wasted. Hold on to your faith and allow God to teach…
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Don’t Be Too Hard On Yourself
You are just a human. I’m not saying that you can’t do extraordinary things in life but it’s just there are moments when you need to take some rest. You are not a machine. Please don’t be too hard on yourself. It’s okay to commit mistakes. Nobody is perfect. So learn to accept the things that you can’t change. Give yourself some time to think and sort things out. Don’t allow your emotions to consume you. I know that you just feel scared on the inside because maybe you think that if you don’t do your best, you might lose everything. But if you already feel so tired, then learn…
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A Personal Note To My Wounded Heart
People may not know what you truly feel inside, but always remind yourself that you are not alone. You will be healed. Your heart will learn to love again. The pain may be too hard for you to handle, but you will overcome it because God’s grace will be with you. The wounds may be so deep but allow God to make it into a beautiful masterpiece. You will smile again. I may not know when. But one day, you will realize the goodness of God in your life. He is just writing your testimony, so take courage, dear heart. You can make it. God’s strength will always be enough.…
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What’s Happening Within Is More Important Than The Situation Around You
You can never control the things that are happening around you. The best thing that you can do is to focus on your heart and mind. Evaluate the things that are going on inside and try to manage your thoughts and emotions. Set your eyes on something that will truly matter. If you can handle yourself, the more you will know how to appropriately react to your situation. There are things in life that you can’t control. Instead of trying to change those things, why not allow God to take over and take good care of it. Do what you can do, and then learn to surrender the burdens that…
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We Are All Sinners That’s Why We Have No Right To Condemn Others
Let’s not forget who we are before God rescued us. Sometimes, we are too occupied to fight for the truth that we tend to condemn others for their sins. We don’t have the right to do it. Only God can judge the people around us. Our task is not to remind them of their sins but simply to love them. You might find it hard to do it, but remember what God did in your life. He encountered you by His love, and He never stops loving you until you finally realize who you truly are in His eyes. God wants us to do the same thing to those people…
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Being Alone Doesn’t Mean That Nobody Loves You
It’s okay to be alone sometimes. It’s the perfect moment for you to do things on your own. You can explore new adventures, take many opportunities, and live this life according to your own pace. Being alone doesn’t mean that nobody loves you. It’s just there are certain seasons in life when you really need to learn how to be mature and independent enough to deal with your own decisions. It’s the moment when you will know more about yourself and other people. You will get to experience new things, and it will lead you to better perspectives. Above all, it’s the perfect time for you to strengthen your relationship…
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Give The People Around You The Chance To Do Good Things
I believe that all people are good simply because God created all of us. We are made in His image and likeness. That’s why we can’t just simply judge someone based on what we see. Maybe they are just going through difficult struggles in life. That’s why they act as if nobody cares for them. They are only occupied on the inside. That’s why they forget who they truly are in the eyes of God. It’s not our job to condemn them. Instead, the best thing that we can do is pray for them. And give them the chance to do good things in life. Those kinds of people just…
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Most Of The Time, Hurtful Words Come From Wounded Hearts
If you wonder why you receive hurtful comments from the people you love, then try to evaluate their lives. They might experience a lot of pain inside. That’s why they tend to release hurtful words in their mouth. Most of the time, the painful words that you receive come from people who are wounded deep within. Remember that hurt people, hurt people. Maybe they just release the pain they feel inside through their words, and you just happen to be the receiver. I am not saying that you should forget what they did to you. I’m just sharing with you a new perspective that you might want to consider. Those…
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You Can’t Go Back And Change The Past
We can never bring back the situations in our past. That’s why we need to move forward in life. You may have regrets inside, but you can no longer turn back and change what happened. I know that it hurts and until now, you are still fighting some battles inside. But it’s time for you to trust God along the process. You may have heartbreaking experiences before but believe that God can make things beautiful in His time. Instead of trying to go back and make things right, just do your best in the present and work on the things that you can still change today. The past will always…
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Someday, You Will Know The Reason Why
Hold on, you may not understand your situation right now, but you need to keep on going. Maybe, you are searching for answers to the questions that bother you all this time, but you just have to keep on pushing through. When the time is right, you will discover why you need to go through that kind of situation. Just trust and believe that everything will be okay. This life will never be perfect, and the best thing that we can do is appreciate all the blessings that we receive rather than focusing on the challenges we face in life. There is a purpose behind everything you experienced. So never…
