Self Development
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The Important Moments In Life
How do you imagine yourself when you reach the age of 70? What are the memories that you would like to reminisce? Is it the things that you learned in school? Or the happy memories that you have with your family and friends? Will you still remember the times when you get so nervous about your exams or the unexpected moments you experienced with strangers? Sometimes, we are just so occupied with the experiences that will not last for a lifetime. We keep on worrying about the stuff that we think will matter in the end, and we tend to ignore the moments we have with our loved ones. Before…
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Don’t Escape Your Feelings, Learn To Face Them
If you wanted to hide the truth inside and think that it’s the best thing to do, then it’s about time for you to acknowledge your feelings. Don’t escape the truth. Learn to face it. Because the moment you will learn to handle it, you will be able to give yourself the chance to mature and grow from the inside. Your feelings and emotions are not your enemies. You don’t have to punish yourself every time you think that what you feel inside is not appropriate. Maybe there’s an important message that your heart wants to relay if you feel troubled inside. You just have to listen and learn to…
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Sometimes Your Life Will Not Turn Out The Way You Planned It To Be, But It’s Okay
We all have some unexpected twists and turns in life. We thought that everything is just going smoothly according to what we planned to be, but then it turned out, the opposite thing just happened. We then feel so devastated and disappointed. We try to blame ourselves, but then we fail to acknowledge the truth that life is just full of little surprises. And we all have the choice of how to respond to it. You can never control the things that are happening around you, but you can take charge of yourself. Just think of the positive things in life. Maybe there is something more that you need to…
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You Can Always Seek Advice And Ask Some Help
It takes a humble heart for us to admit that we need some help. Sometimes, we just keep all the pain inside, thinking that we can make it all alone. But don’t you know that some people around you hold the answer to some of your life’s questions? It is not because they are experts with everything you’ve been going through but because they also experience the same thing you experienced. And we can always learn from them. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness. It simply means that you love yourself enough to find a way just for you to be okay. And there’s nothing wrong with…
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Maturity Is When You Learn To Understand Others Above Yourself
We can’t get what we always want in life, especially when it involves other people. Sometimes, we need to wait and be patient enough to understand their situation. They also have their own struggles and problems in life. That’s why we need to be mature enough to accept that we can’t always force them to do the things that we want. They also have their own dreams and goals in life, and we need to accept it. Maturity is very costly. It’s one of the most important things that a person should learn, and sometimes, it’s difficult for us to learn from others’ experiences. Instead, we need to go through…
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There Are Things In Life That Are Greater Than What You Do For Living
Whatever you are doing right now, I hope the reason is not just for living, but instead, you wanted to make a difference not just in your life but also for others. There is more to life than living. Sometimes, we will learn to appreciate it when we try to serve wholeheartedly instead of asking something in return. You will receive a beautiful treasure when you learn to help, and it’s something that you can never buy, for it can only be felt. What makes this life worth living is not because of the paycheck we receive every month. Yes, it can be a form of reward for yourself, but…
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How You Receive Is How You Also Give
Try to check your heart the moment you receive something from someone. Are you grateful enough? Or are you wondering why you receive such a thing and thinking about how to repay the person? Evaluate yourself because the way you react when you receive something will also be the state of your heart when you give or help someone. May you always feel grateful when you receive something from someone. May it be a simple help or a gift. Whatever it is that you have, I hope that you will receive it with all your heart without any question or doubt. Your intention matters most. When someone gives you something,…
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I Hope You Still Remember What Happiness Feels like
I don’t know exactly the things going on in your mind, but may you always find the courage to smile even if you are having a hard time. I know that it’s not easy, I may not feel what you truly feel, but always remember that what you are going through will never last. It’s just a phase in your life, and you always have the reason to still hope for the best, even if you feel like you are walking through the darkness. The pain that you feel right now will soon end. Do not allow yourself to live in misery. I hope you never reach that point in…
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Character Is More Important Than Wealth
We live in this kind of world where people tend to put too much value on the things that will quickly fade, such as earthly wealth. Some single people are looking for someone who can provide them with the things they want. They forget to value the stuff that matters most, and that’s character. The person’s inner qualities are more important than the wealth you can acquire here on earth. Life is full of surprises. We never really what will happen next. What matters most is you know how to handle it deep within, and it takes a good character for you to make it. Your wealth here on earth…
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Getting Everything You Want Doesn’t Guarantee Happiness
If you desire something in your life and think that you will only be happy the moment you reach it, you need to remind yourself that you can be happy right now, even if you are not yet there. Getting whatever you desire in your heart doesn’t guarantee happiness. Don’t be so occupied with the things you want that you tend to forget to enjoy your present. Happiness is something that you can only find deep within. Please don’t look for it in the temporary things in life. You can enjoy your life right now, even if you are still in the process of achieving your dreams. You can choose…
